"After Graduation Tune-Up" Pre-Session Worksheet
Hi there, if you are looking at this worksheet it means that you are a past mentee who has graduated from mentoring with me. Is that correct? If you haven't met with me as a regular mentee in the past, this is not the best place to schedule a meeting with me. Please contact my assistant, Clayton Wagler, with your question by sending an email to us at HopeJourneyGuide@gmail.com to get you started on the best path.
This 60-minute session gives you the option of talking about the particular area(s) where you feel stuck or that you have regressed. As you know, most of my experience is with helping men like you overcome sexual addiction and walk in freedom. When we get healthy in one area of our lives, we have more energy and focus to devote to the improvement and success of other areas of our lives, too, don't we?
You should complete this worksheet now, but expect another one to be assigned two days before we meet. That one will have a slightly different angle, and it will ensure that we can get the most out of our time together.
Because of our past history and friendship you may want to talk to me about other areas — and that is OK. But you need to know that I have less experience in other (non-sexual addiction) areas and, by general standards, am less qualified to speak on such topics. I will certainly do my best, but I will speak less confidently on other topics.
However, if you were doing well with avoiding USB and have started to get back into edging behavior and different forms of USB, I am eager to help you discover hidden triggers! With love, I will ask you hard questions. We will brainstorm together, pray, and ask God for his wisdom and insight.
Purpose / Goal
Give you insight and helpful next steps to get back to winning the battle against Unwanted Sexual Behaviors.
General format
This will be a Zoom meeting. Normally, I will lead out with a short prayer inviting the Lord to be present and to guide our conversation. Then I will ask you what you want to talk about. If you request that we record the session so that you can have a recorded copy of the meeting afterwards, we will gladly send you the link to the recording at no additional charge.
Please understand that while this meeting that can be scheduled quickly, it is not a quick 'on ramp' to regular weekly meetings with me. Normally, these "Tune-Up" sessions are only once — or, at the most, twice in rapid succession.
Investment?
Your investment will be $110 (you will pay with a credit card in the next step).
If you have more questions or aren't confident that this format is right for you, please reach out to us at HopeJourneyGuide@gmail.com or via text/voicemail at (620) 727-0353.
Questions to answer in preparation for our session together
1. What is the level of your USB struggle? (Describe the nature and frequency of your sexual struggle in the last 3-6 months.)
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2. Where are you stuck? What would it take for you to feel like this meeting with me was a success?
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3. What have you tried so far to find answers to your question(s)?
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Thanks for taking the time to prepare for this "After Graduation Tune-Up" session. I can hardly wait to see what God will do! Let's talk soon! May your desire for consistent positive progress in your life be granted!Sincerely,
Arthur Nisly
