Destressing The Stressed Out Family - Dollnita Winston Signature Coaching

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At one time or another, all children misbehave or do things that could be harmful, that are "wrong", or that parents don't like. Examples include hitting someone, whining, throwing food, forgetting homework, not picking up toys, lying, having a tantrum, refusing to go to bed, wanting a cookie before dinner, running into the street, arguing back, coming home late. 
Parents have many ways or styles of dealing with these types of problems. Below are items that describe some styles of parenting.

For each item, choose the one that best describes your struggle with parenting during the last 2 months with your child. 

Choose Either Column A OR Column B for each question

A B
When my child misbehaves, I do something right away. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic3","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I will do something about it later. 
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Before I do something about a problem...
I give my child several reminders or warnings{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic5","width":100,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I say one reminder or warning. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic7","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When I'm upset or under stress...
I am picky and, on my child's, back. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic8","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I am no more picky than usual.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic9","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}


When I tell my child not to do something...
I say very little
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I say a lot.

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When my child pesters me...
I can ignore the pestering.
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I can't ignore the pestering.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic13","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When my child misbehaves...
I usually get into a long argument with my child{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic14","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I don't get into an argument{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic15","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I threaten to do things that...
I am sure I can carry it out.
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I know I won't actually do it.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic17","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I am the kind of parent that...
sets limits on what my child is allowed to do.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic18","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

Let's my child do whatever he or she want.
s{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic19","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When my child misbehaves...
I give my child a long lecture.
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I keep my talks short and to the point.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic21","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When my child misbehaves...
I raise my voice or yell.
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I speak to my child calmly.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic23","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

If saying no doesn't work right away...
I take some other kind of action.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic24","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I keep talking and trying to get through to my child.
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When I want my child to stop doing something...
I firmly tell my child to stop.
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I coax or beg my child to stop.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic27","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When my child is out of my sight...
I often don't know what my child is doing.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic28","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I always have a good idea of what my child is doing.
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After there's been a problem with my child...
I often hold a grudge.
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Things get back to normal quickly. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic31","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When we are not at home...
I handle my child the way I do at home.  {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic32","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I let my child get away with a lot more. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic33","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When my child does something I don't like...
I do something about it every time it happens. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic34","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

I often let it go.
 {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic35","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When there's a problem with my child...
Things build up and I do things I don't mean to do.{"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic36","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

 		Things don't get out of hand. {"type":"checkbox","name":"__generic37","width":50,"value":"","size":"Small","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please check at least one item.","options":"Agree"}

When my child misbehaves, I spank, slap, grab, or hit my child... 
Never or rarely.
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Most of the time.
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When my child doesn't do what I ask...
I often let it go or end up doing it myself.
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I take some other action.
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When I give a fair threat or warning...
I often don't carry it out.
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I always do what I said.
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If saying "No" doesn't work...
I take some other kind of action.
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I offer my child something nice so he/she will behave.
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When my child misbehaves...
I handle it without getting upset.
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I get so frustrated or angry that my child can see I am upset.
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When my child misbehaves...
I make my child tell me why he/she did it.
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I say "No" or take some other action.
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If my child misbehaves and then acts sorry...
I handle the problem like I usually would.
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I let it go that time.
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You can use this space to share your overall thoughts on your struggle with parenting:{"type":"textarea","name":"__generic52","width":100,"value":"","size":"Normal","validation":"","validationMessage":"Please fill in this item.","height":80,"placeholder":""}












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